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“The amazing and beautiful Mistress Gemma Li is a rising star who is naturally dominant, stern and quick witted. You will melt in a puddle of submissiveness in her presence.
— Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.
“[You] get turned on by probing the nooks and crevices of grey matter. Stimulating your brain with other brains. Finger-blasting consciousness.”
— SP
“I think when you’re really in thrall of someone specific fetishes maybe become less important. That’s the effect I think you will have on people, imo.”
— stephen elliot (author of The “Adderall Diaries”, “Happy Baby”)
“Mistress Gemma is the most authentic Mistress I've submitted to. I was able to get out of my head and focus my attention on a dominatrix who truly cares about me as a submissive. When I am with her I've gone to the deepest submissive state I've ever been to. In the state, I've found strength in letting go and trusting her. Pleasing her hasn't always been easy, but she always believes in me and pushes me to become a better submissive, executive, and person.
I'm healthier, more aware of my actions, and I've become more successful outside of our time together. Serving her is not just a fantasy, but involves real work. If you're looking for a Mistress to be devoted to then she is the one. I cannot imagine not serving her and am so thankful for her acceptance and challenging me as a submissive”
— sub M
“ I have been led to acts and mental places I have never imagined would manifest in this lifetime. The journey my Queen has been leading me through, with strength, intuition and care, has been challenging and rewarding at the same time. I experienced how surrender creates peace of mind. I felt free, not despite, but because I am not in control. The act of giving up all control forces me to slow down as I mentally get ready to stretch my comfort zone. Surrender for me creates freedom of the mind. I strive to make my dominant proud or maybe even more so not disappointed. The interplay between obedience and praise, pain and care, can be very cathartic. I was fortunate to find a Queen that cares and feels very deeply, a Queen that is naturally very, very dominant. That combination led to a journey of pain and pleasure, tears and joy. Through that journey, my Queen helped me to further work through the scars inflicted during my childhood.
You gave me a guiding hand that I was missing for so many years. A calm port, a confident voice, a steering hand and kind soul. You challenged me in so many ways I have never been challenged before. I endured it all through sincere surrender and in honor of your divine feminine and with gratitude and trust for where your divine power would lead me to.
You, my divine Queen, helped me to further expand my consciousness by showing me new avenues of exploring and learning about myself.”
— baby a
“Some people are just meant to be who they are. I have seen in it coaches, teachers, and business leaders. You are exactly where you are supposed to be. The feeling of walking into your presence is hard to describe. There is apprehension and a sense of calm. Not knowing where we might go, but knowing that you value me allows me to place all my senses in your hands. Your stunning beauty fills my eyes, the sound of your commands calms me, the firmness of your touch envelopes me, your subtle scent will always bring back vivid memories of each time I kneel before you. Finally, the erotic taste of what you share washes away all other things in the moment. The way that your intellect takes control of everything and elevates your craft should not be overlooked. You are who you are, and I consider myself lucky to have stumbled into your world. As we have spoken, I am not a neophyte in this world, but I have never experienced someone as connected to their true self as you. There is no act or forced attitude. As we walked through things that were new to me, you were confident and caring. You always pay attention to my nonverbal queues and take me just a little farther with each move. When you let me look into your eyes, I know that my submission is valued. This is the difference from others I have submitted to and what makes you so unique. Bringing new experiences to life is something one can tell you enjoy and takes my breath away when I reflect. Understanding the professional nature of our relationship does not take away from the closeness I feel to you. You've created one of the safest places ever for me to live in the kinks that separate me from most. Under your guidance, the safety I feel makes me a better person far outside our time together. I pledge myself always to be a lifelong learner and to respect the superiority of all women ... you most of all.”
— jefferson
“Her ability to guide me through a deep trance was unparalleled. From the moment our session began, I was completely under her spell. She was able to intuitively sense my emotional and pain-fearing barriers and skilfully guide me through them, leading me to a place of profound transformation. I was amazed at how helpless and submissive I felt under her spell. I found myself craving more pain, more intensity, and more submission, Even if I could talk, I didn’t know what to say or even if I should. My number one priority was Mistress’ pleasure and the satisfaction she was getting from clearly pushing my boundaries.
I’ve always considered myself somewhat of a fake submissive, where I’ve enjoyed the play of a woman taking control. This was the first time I would say I’d graduated to a real submissive. I don't believe this is necessarily a progression in my psyche, but it speaks to the skill and ability of a truly magical Mistress. Feeling so under her spell, and craving it ever since, has been genuinely eye-opening to me. When I am fortunate enough to see Mistress Gemma again, I am not going to be as focused on my limits and worries. I finally feel in a place where I will be able to let go and fully submit to her dominance. I have heard and thought about power exchange, but until meeting Mistress Gemma, I never really understood what it was. Mistress owns all of me and holds all the power, I hold none, except a safe word, and I am very happy about that dynamic.
It was clear that she had a deep understanding of the human psyche and a wealth of experience in her craft. In just a few short hours, she was able to help me confront and overcome obstacles that had been holding me back for years. I left our session feeling refreshed, rejuvenated, and empowered - truly grateful for the opportunity to have worked with such a gifted practitioner. Her grand finale has imprinted itself in my brain, a personal gift from her to me. I am truly in awe of Mistress Gemma and cannot wait to see her again. Thank you, thank you, thank you..”
— darling si
“Mistress Gemma's evident care for her craft, her submissives and how she presents herself were what pushed me over the edge to contact her after a period of careful consideration. I could not have hoped or dreamed that this decision would be so impactful, so quickly. It turns out that Mistress Gemma has a talent for dominance which envelopes you more fully than you might first realize, until such point that you are confronted with its incontrovertibility and the depth of your submission. I think this talent stems from the authenticity of her domination, her exceptional communication and the combination of her stern strength with the fact that she undeniably looks after the well being of her submissives.
I know that in over 20 years of playing I have never encountered someone so inspirational. She inspires me to want to take more for her in session such that she can revel in her sadism. I have rapidly acquired a taste for the bite of her whip and she is expanding the universe of my desires so that I may better prove my devotion to her. She has a knack for keeping me off balance that only serves to reinforce my position beneath her. She inspires me to be chaste and harness that energy in pursuit of pleasing her. She inspires me to tirelessly pursue ways to enhance and invest in her well being. She inspires me to achieve goals that would not be possible without her firm hand guiding me as she has kept me on track to weight-loss and better health. Most importantly, I truly believe that in devotion to something greater, she is helping me grow into a better version of myself and granting me the full breadth of fun and joy associated with BDSM. This requires work and sacrifice, but it is no exaggeration to say that she has given me purpose.
I think many submissives make the mistake of seeking out the superficial in their play partners, whereas they should be seeking people that are extraordinarily beautiful both inside and out like Mistress Gemma. Power exchange between two people is the kernel of all kink and Mistress Gemma engenders trust to explore it on an ongoing basis, rather than play-acting on the surface. For that, I am grateful to her and a piece of me will always be hers.”
— your loyal pup, fat t
“I'm fortunate to have worked and travelled in many European countries, the US and even Sydney, Australia. This has given me the opportunity to session with numerous pro-dommes over the past 35 plus years. If I had to choose one adjective to describe Mistress Gemma Li it would be 'Fabulous.' She's beautiful, highly intelligent, incredibly seductive and in my opinion a natural born Domme.
I'm into inescapable restraint, sensory deprivation, teasing & denial and roleplay with a moderate amount of pain. I also have some chronic health issues that restrict some 'torment.' During four hours of play Mistress Gemma took note of my fantasies and showed a rare empathy by teasing and torturing my mind & body while taking into account my limits. For some days after our time together I felt rejuvenated. ”
— sub RD
“When you walk in, you feel her presence surround you, engulfing all of your senses. I started under Mistress Gemma’s guidance pretty new into my submission. I still feel “young” in my journey, but most likely will always feel as such. Mistress Gemma asked me what I wanted to explore and what my limits were and has taken that light guidance and forced my world open. It has been a whirlwind journey, always wanting, desiring more. Each time is a different speed, different devices.
Mistress Gemma Li is such a wonderful gift to this world, most likely where she has found her place in this big world. Outside of a session, she is always pushing me to do better. In a session, she is always pushing to go harder, faster, slower, gentler, whatever the particular time desires.
I had tried a few different Goddesses, but none seemed truly genuine. During my first experience with her, I fully submitted. It felt like a weight had been lifted, and I was ready to do whatever I needed to continue to submit to Mistress Gemma. She has continued to meet my every wish of what I would be possibly looking for, being absolutely genuine in every form of communication I have ever had with Mistress Gemma.
I hope I can continue to always be in her stable, ready, and eager to serve and please her absolute beauty and divine ability to make me submit. Thank you for making me a better person and submissive, through your care and concern for my well-being.”
— servant cr
“The experience I had with Mistress Gemma Li was beyond incredible. She took the time to get to know me and what makes me tick before we played, and boy did it pay off. She was warm, inviting, made me comfortable, and then absolutely wrecked me in the best way possible. I have decades of experience, and I consider my session with Mistress Gemma Li to be one of the best I've ever had. If you want someone who can push your limits, she is the one. Be prepared, though, and be careful what you wish for, because she will deliver.
After some poking and prodding, seeing what made me squirm, Mistress Gemma Li subjected me to nearly two hours of the most grueling sensory deprivation and overload I've ever experienced. I was immobilized on a table, hooded, couldn't see or hear, and ruthlessly tormented by so many different things I couldn't possibly remember them all. I was mercilessly tickled, electrocuted, teased, spanked, and more, until I was completely overwhelmed. I was hysterical, writhing, screaming, begging, but it didn't matter. There was no escape, I was truly at her mercy. I became desperate for it to stop because there were no breaks, I had asked for my limits to be pushed, and that's exactly what happened. There was this feeling of utter defeat and surrender as it continued, like I was being taken apart, clinically, and that the only way out was through. Boy oh boy what a ride. How I long to be at Mistress Gemma Li's mercy again.
Did I mention how beautiful she is? She is a Goddess. And she will own you.”
— dj